Generally speaking, women over the age of thirty have experienced everything they should go through. When it comes to sex, they no longer have the greenishness that made them blush when they saw others kissing when they were young. Most young mature women already have their own set of sexual skills, such as teasing, fun, posture, etc.
I have a best friend named Lisa. Her husband had to be separated from her and the children due to work reasons, and they could only be reunited for a month or two every year. Sometimes I feel sorry for her. She is very tired from work and has to raise children. I advise her to relax more when she has time. She always smiles bitterly and says, “I want to do that too!” Yes, who would want to work so hard? I could only sigh and encourage her, “You are a great pseudo-single mother”, which made her almost burst into tears.
One time I was chatting with her and I said, “Your husband has come back after such a long time. What should you do if you have sexual needs?” She said, “If I have such thoughts, I will give them up immediately, otherwise what can I do.” “Have you never thought about having a phone call or video chat with him?” She said with a half-smile, “It’s embarrassing, I don’t know how to do it, I may not accept it, and I don’t know if he won’t like it. We are an old couple now, don’t let him laugh at me.” She said with a chuckle.
But just a few days ago, she actually discussed some sex toys with me. I was very excited at first. Of course, this excitement was because I was happy that she had such an attitude towards life. I asked her “Why did you suddenly think of buying sex toys?”. She was silent for a while and said, “I’m a little tired. It’s too far away. In both hemispheres, every time I need him, he’s not around. I want to share with him, but he’s still not around. What makes me even more sad is that, He can’t understand my dedication and mood. He only contacts me once in a while, but feels awkward and strange even through the phone.”…”So I’m thinking, if I can solve my physical needs by myself, can I live like this for the rest of my life?” she said with a wry smile. I was confused. Even though I am usually so talkative, facing my best friend of many years, her loneliness left me speechless. I knew that she was holding back her tears, and she also knew that I was holding back from hugging her. We just sat with each other for a while, blowing the cold air, to maintain the decency of our old age.
Post time: Oct-19-2023
